Yes, Vespera is open to affiliation :) If you would like to affiliate, just send me an email with your site address and button, and anything else you'd care to say. If you don't have a button, I'll gladly make you one! Please note that Vespera will only affiliate with either Tolkien-related sites OR sites dedicated to female characters specifically.
As of October 2016, Vespera has no affiliates! Alas for a sleeping fandom...